Tuesday, December 31, 2024
2024年の反省 - Reflecting on 2024
Sunday, December 1, 2024
A short trip to Udon-land aka Sanuki aka Kagawa prefecture
So I got back from Kagawa prefecture earlier today, and thought I would share my experiences of my short trip there. As mentioned previously, the main purpose was to visit my future mother-in-law(義母). It did not set in until a few hours before when my fiancee started coaching/drilling on what things I should and shouldn't talk about. Fortunately, despite initial nervousness, the dinner/meeting went well. I can confirm with certainty as my fiancee gave her official seal of approval on my performance for the evening. We also gave her some おみやげ that we purchased in Ikebukuro, including cakes and せんべい (crackers). She in turn gave us an engagement gift of a rather generous amount of money that we (reluctantly) accepted, though we reached a compromise in that we would set the money aside the next time she will visit us in Tokyo, or for emergencies.
Aside from meeting 未来の義母, I also did some sightseeing, though time only permitted for two places to visit.
The first place I went to was Ogijima (男木島). As the name suggests, it is an island that requires taking a ferry from Takamatsu. Fortunately the ferry trip only takes about 40 minutes one way. The first thing I noticed upon arriving was how quiet it was. Ogijima is a very very small island, with less than 200 residents, though there is apparently a school here. All the houses are located close to the ferry port. I spent some time taking in the views, and stopped at a small bakery for a muffin and coffee. After, I followed the trail and headed to the island's main attraction, the lighthouse. Aside from 2 or 3 other tourists, I did not encounter anybody else along the trail. As I got closer to the lighthouse, the wind got stronger, and there weren't any trees to protect from the wind. I spent a bit of time admiring the view, and the made my way back, but not before stopping at another cafe for some tea and pumpkin icecream... served inside an actual pumpkin, though you are told to not eat the actual pumpkin. Aside from myself, there was a group of 3 elderly people that were seemingly residents, based on where they were going afterwards (I left shortly after they did, on my way to the ferry).
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| Ogijima has very narrow roads, not even big enough for cars |
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| Ogijima's lighthouse, but there's not much here to protect from the strong winds |
The other place I went to was Ritsurin Koen (栗林公園). It is a big park, and we didn't get the chance to explore it all. It kind of reminded me of the park in Okayama I visited last year, though you also have a nice close up view of Mt. Shiun (紫雲山) to go with the nice scenic photos you can take. Fortunately, there weren't many people at the time, but there was also a light up event happening later in the evening, and my fiancee and I suspected this was the reason for fewer visitors. Even so, it certainly is quite a sight to see, even during the day. It's location is also rather convenient in that there are bus stops surrounding the park, and the train station is nearby too.
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| Lots of bonsai trees in to see |
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| Mt. Shiun is smack bang in front of Ritsurin Koen |
Saturday, November 23, 2024
義母会いに行く
Soon we will be visiting my future mother-in-law. This will actually be the very first time that I have ever met my fiance's mother in all the years that we have been together. This is despite her having met my mother a few times already, and she was able to meet my father when she visited me in Australia shortly before moved to Japan to work.
I won't go into the details, but distance and schedule were two of the reasons that I have not met her until now. She seemed shy about the idea of video calling in the past, so I have never had a video call with her either. However, I did have the chance to speak with her briefly on the phone, and she gave off a good first impression. Also due to her background, she has given advice for medical related matters, especially with my brief period in the hospital earlier this year.
Furthermore, while my work has taken me across many parts of Japan, this will be the first time to travel to Kagawa. From what my fiance has told me, her hometown is pretty rural, and while there are buses and trains, a car is recommended to get around quickly. I have also been told that udon is a local specialty, and compared to other areas in the Japan, udon in Kagawa is pretty damn cheap. I am still having a look in to Kagawa prefecture and what there is to do there, so I would like to a do little bit of sightseeing as well if there is time for it.




